Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Honeymoon Caribbean Cruise


First of all, red-eye flights suck. At least James got some sleep. In between feeling like my legs were going to fall off and various cricks in my neck, I got maybe an hour of sleep through our entire journey from SLC to Atlanta to Miami. No bueno.

Arriving in Miami was a relief. Arriving at the Port of Miami and seeing our enormous cruise ship was even better.
But then the waiting began. We arrived in Miami at about 9am, and had intended to grab some breakfast at the airport before heading over, but that didn't happen. So as we sat waiting at the docking area, I was getting hungrier and hungrier, crankier and crankier. (Not doing so well going without food these days.) It was about 1:30pm or so before they started boarding (about 2 hours late). Fortunately boarding didn't take too long. After stopping by our stateroom, our first mission was to find the buffet!

Let me make first mention here of the food. If you know me and James, you know that we like to eat. I've always said that one of the reasons I do Taekwondo is so that I can eat whatever I want. :) The food was one of the top things both of us were looking forward to on the cruise. And we were not disappointed!

There's pretty much food whenever you want it. Breakfast options include a breakfast buffet or room service delivered to your stateroom. Lunch is the buffet, which has everything from Chinese to  burgers to Mexican to fish & chips to carved meats, plus a dessert buffet and an endless ice cream machine that's open 24/7. Dinner we had every night in the formal dining room, and frankly, it was one of the highlights of every day.

Day 1, after settling in (and the mandatory awful safety briefing) we went topside to bid farewell to Miami. It was pretty cool, watching the ocean open up in front of us. Of course, we then took a nap in a comfy deck lounge.


That evening, we enjoyed a couple of shows onboard, including a really fun magician/comedian. Ask me sometime about the Grapefruit Guy. Hilarious.

Day 2 was one of my favorites. We visited our first island: Half Moon Cay, Bahamas. It was seriously the most paradisaical place I have ever been. When you see a movie with those white sand beaches, palm trees, and turquoise water, they could've been at Half Moon Cay.

Day 3 was a Sea Day, which were definitely not my favorite parts of the cruise. While we found some entertainment aboard (comedy shows, swimming, etc) we also just spent time reading and watching movies in our cabin. The highlight of the day was Elegant Evening, where everyone dressed up for dinner, and they served one of my favorite meals of the trip: Lobster!


Day 4 was our day in St. Thomas, U.S. Virgin Islands. It was overcast most of the day, though fortunately we did not get rained on. We started out by walking into downtown St. Thomas, did some souvenir shopping at a local bazaar, then had lunch at a Jamaican restaurant. Then it was time to walk back for our excursion.

We boarded a sailboat with about 15 other people, and set sail for a private island called Buck Island, which was about an hour's sail from St. Thomas. There, we snorkeled in the bay with sea turtles. It was so amazing! I wish we could've gotten pictures of the turtles, they were so close to us! We also swam through a coral reef, and the fish were incredible, I loved seeing all the different varieties. But the sea turtles were absolutely the best part.

Day 5 we spent in San Juan, Puerto Rico. There we enjoyed a 2-hour private walking tour of Old San Juan. (It was truly private--the tour was me, James and Victor, our local guide.) It was fantastic. I loved San Juan--the statues, the architecture, the history, the ambiance. After our tour, we had lunch in San Juan and did a little shopping before heading back to the Liberty.


Day 6 we visited Grand Turk Island, of Turks & Caicos. It was another beach day, which we enjoyed. If I'm being honest, though, I much preferred the beach at Half Moon Cay. The beach at Grand Turk, while beautiful to look at, was much rougher, rocky and uneven. We spent a little time in the water, but mostly we hung out on the beach and in town.

Day 7 was a Sea Day. We did a few fun things that day, but the big event came that evening. They had an exhibit of Thomas Kinkade's artwork in the art gallery on board. We both enjoy his artwork, so we went to the exhibit. We were informed that they'd later be having a brief seminar, followed by a raffle for a Kinkade. So we came back that evening for the seminar and entered the raffle. To our surprise and delight, James won the raffle! We were ecstatic to win the Kinkade.

Then at last, we arrived back in Miami. We had one last breakfast aboard before heading off to Miami International Airport. Of course, it took us all day to finally get home, and boy was a relief when we finally pulled up to our Holley house.

We loved our cruise. It was fantastic, a truly unforgettable experience. I'm so glad we were able to have this vacation at this point in our life together!


Tuesday, August 13, 2013

This Mad Month of August

James and I realized during the first week in August that we would not be going to our ward again until my birthday. Our weekends in August look like this:

Weekend 1: Baby blessing for friends Ellen and Justin's new little baby Reed (who is adorable).
Weekend 2: Mission farewell for friend Kristen, who leaves tomorrow.
Weekends 3 & 4: Honeymoon cruise.
Weekend 5: Camping with birthdad & fam.

Hopefully our ward doesn't forget who we are. It would be ironic to come back on the eighth of September and have to be introduced all over again. Ironic, but entirely possible.

In addition to our full weekends, there's just been a lot going on! Some of them include:

-Coaching at our studio's Black Belt Overnighter (also over the first weekend in August).
-Purchasing and planting a peach tree in our backyard (after first ripping out a dead tree).
-Having various family members over for dinner during several evenings.
-Getting our piano tuned.
-Sealings at the temple. (We were going to do an endowment session, but we decided to let the fervor over the new video die down a little first, instead of waiting 2+ hours to make it into a session.)
-Regular date nights. (So far this month: seeing The Wolverine, which was decent, having lunch at The Pizza Factory--mm!, and seeing The Scarlet Pimpernel at the Scera Shell with my parents).
-Camping at Payson Lakes with my family last weekend.
-Installing new blinds on our front room window after the old ones collapsed in spectacular fashion.
-And of course all the regular stuff like teaching and attending taekwondo classes, grocery shopping, and making goo-goo eyes at each other on a regular basis.

Of course, the big exciting things are yet to come! The greatest of which is our HONEYMOON CRUISE coming in just a few short days! We leave late Friday night, and our cruise begins on Saturday. I couldn't be more excited. This is my first time leaving North America, my first time on a cruise, and probably my last for a long time to come! We have stops in the Bahamas, the Virgin Islands, Puerto Rico, and Grand Turk Island. Not to mention all the fun things to do ON the boat. We'll be gone for a week, and I'm sure it won't be nearly long enough. Can't. Wait.

When we get back, I will 1) be changing my name legally at last. We waited so as to avoid the purchase of a new passport, but with the cruise behind us, I will be officially becoming a Holley. And 2) we will be getting a dog. We're planning to rescue a dog from the pound, so we have no idea what we will end up with. We're agreed on size and temperament, but other than that, it will be interesting to see what we end up with! Regardless, we are both very excited to be adding to our little family. Doggie will be going through trial by fire, as he/she will probably be going camping with us and my birth family that weekend. It will be an adventure, right?

I love my crazy life. I would much rather be busy than bored. Of course, one needs balance, and I do try to find it. James and I make lots of time for R&R, and just for one another's company, which is most important. He is seriously the best husband in the world--for me. Blessings abound, and I am incredibly grateful!!!

Saturday, August 3, 2013

Love & Family photos

We received these picture frames as wedding gifts--funny enough, from two separate people. We had already decorated our apartment at the time we received them, but I liked them, so I hung onto them in the hopes that I would be able to use them at some point in the future.
Of course, moving into our house meant that we had a lot more wall space. (A LOT more wall space.) After sorting out where all our current wall hangings would be placed, I determined that I wanted to use these frames at last, and place them on the walls of our office. I actually hung them last week, in time for a housewarming party (and our video tour) even though the frames were still empty. Or rather, the frames were still full of generic shots of strangers.

I spent an afternoon earlier this week carefully selecting the photos I wanted to go in each frame. I followed the "Love" and "Family" themes, and filled one frame with pictures of our families, and the other frame with pictures of us. (I'm just vain, I guess. And really in love with my husband.) The photos came today, and I am completely in love with the results! This is our "Family" frame:
Top (L to R): my brother Kyle and his wife Kristi, my parents Don & Kathryn, my Grandma Mechling, James' parents Gene & Charmaine, James' brother Patrick and his wife Shaylee.
Bottom (L to R): my family (James & I, my parents, Kyle & Kristi), James & his best friend Damian, us, and then the entire Holley clan (Timothy, Daniel, Shaylee, Valerie, Charmaine, Gene, Brendan, Victoria, Matthew, Thomas, Nicholas, Tristan, Sean, Patrick, James, Caidin, Tyler).

I am just in love with this collection of photos. It displays the people who are most precious to me and to my husband. Family is so incredibly important to us both, and I love having their pictures hanging on my wall. Then I guess I'll show you the "Love" frame, even though it's entirely pictures of us:
Top (L to R): Our NYC trip in April, riding the Screamer at Lagoon in May, from my sister's wedding in October, James' 2nd degree Black Belt test in January, one of my favorite engagement photos.
Bottom (L to R): random photo I love from a lunch at Applebee's one Saturday afternoon, Halloween at a masquerade ball, our mutual favorite wedding-day photo, and my favorite photo of us from Mechling family photos in May.

I wanted pictures that represented the span of our relationship, and the variety of things we've done together. Travel, Taekwondo, our wedding, and just time spent enjoying one another's company. Photographs are very important to me, and a very tangible way that I keep memories. So, this frame may be a little egocentric, but it also makes me very, very happy every time I look up at it. :)

Saturday, July 27, 2013

House: Finale!

The long-awaited (for some) post about all things HOUSE! (Beware: excessive length.) Last Thursday was closing day, and we couldn't have been more excited. We met at the title company that afternoon, with their representative, our loan officer Brother Sly, and our real estate agent Cole. (Now that I think about it, we should have gotten a picture of everyone. Alas.) The paperwork wasn't quite as bad as I had been told to expect, though it was certainly extensive, and often redundant. Still, our companions made it a good time, and it was sure a happy moment when we were done!
Friday morning we finished packing up our kitchen, and went to the RC Willey Outlet to buy our fridge, which we had scoped out earlier in the week. Then we waited eagerly for our keys. We got word from Brother Sly that our loan was in the clear, and soon thereafter, heard from Cole that we could get into the house. We buzzed right on over, and officially took possession of our house.What a happy day!


That evening we took over a few boxes, mostly books and kitchen things. Moving Day was officially set for Saturday. But of course we couldn't pass up the opportunity to spend the first night in our house! So we borrowed my parents van to haul over our mattress, and, as Shaylee would say, we slept at the house in all its empty glory. :)

Saturday morning we were up bright and early to prepare for the move. We were fortunate to have many excellent helpers. We had Cole and Michael, friends, for the first hour (more on that in a moment), our home teacher Mike, James's brothers Daniel and Patrick, and his wife Shaylee, and my awesome parents. We are SO grateful to each of them!

My dad came over at 9am to help James remove a railing from our back deck. Our house is a split entry, which makes moving in large items difficult. So we had determined to take our larger items in through the back--either the back door into our basement, or up the stairs onto our deck and in through the patio door. We also decided to remove the aforementioned railing to facilitate the larger items--especially the piano. 

A few months ago, my mother informed me that at whatever point James and I bought a house and settled down for an extended period of time, we could have "my" piano--their upright grand, which my mother had apparently always considered to be mine. (I am the only member of my immediate family who plays.) Though initially reluctant to deprive my parents of their piano, James and I ultimately could not resist, and took them up on their kind and generous offering.

The first hour of our move was therefore consumed with moving the piano and a few other items from my parents house. For this purpose, I had enlisted some extra aid (aka Cole and Michael, who could only be there for that first hour). James and I rented a moving truck from Timp Rentals, which was a great decision. (Loading ramp for the win!) Upon arriving at the house, we got the other things inside, and then the guys tackled the piano.



It actually wasn't as hard as James and I had feared, though still plenty difficult. We are just grateful we had all the help that we did! Having all these buff guys to lift and maneuver made the process much easier than it could have been. It was a happy moment to get the piano into place.

After that, we went to our apartment to load up our (immense amount of) stuff, then back to the house to unload, which was easier by far. I hate packing, but rather enjoy unpacking. We fed everybody pizza in thanks for their help. After everything was unloaded, everyone but my parents departed with our thanks, while we stayed to unpack, organize, clean, etc, starting with picking up and installing our new refrigerator!




This was one of only a few major purchases we had to make for our new home. I have been lucky enough to collect a lot of furniture and things over the years of my apartment living, without ever having purchased much. For example, our couch and our dryer (I think? or was it the washer?) I inherited from an apartment I lived in over in Lindon. The washer (or dryer?) was a hand-me-down from my cousin Hollie, as was our little entertainment center and rocking chair. The kitchen table was from my parents, although the kitchen chairs were inherited from an old roommate who got married and didn't need them anymore. Our bed was a wedding gift from my parents. We have been very lucky! Besides the fridge, our "major" purchases have included a second couch for downstairs (purchased inexpensively off KSL.com), a new kitchen sink, and a new headboard for our bed. We do still need to purchase a lawn mower. And that will be about it!

Honorable mention goes to my parents, who stayed all day long to help us get settled into the house. (Although they claim it was partially to avoid a bachelor party my brother was hosting at their house. They have been an incredible aid to us throughout the move.

Sunday was low key, but on Monday was when we got our new headboard. The headboard that we'd been using actually belongs to my old bed, which we stored at my parents' house when they bought us the new bed for our wedding present. But when we announced we were buying the house, my mother informed me that she would appreciate us taking the bed, so she didn't have to store it anymore. But in order to put together the bed, it required the headboard. So we needed a new headboard. 

We'd been looking for a headboard for a few weeks, but finally found one we liked on Monday morning, via Craigslist. We borrowed my parents van again and drove up to West Valley to get it, only to discover that there was no way in Hades that this thing was going to fit in the van. (It's as tall as I am, with no detachable parts.) So we shoved it in as far as it would go, strapped down the back door, and proceeded cautiously on our way.

We stopped at IKEA on our way home (how I love IKEA!) to pick up a little side table for our family room. I'd been looking on KSL and Craigslist for this as well, but hadn't really seen anything. But when we decided to go up to West Valley for the headboard, James suggested stopping at IKEA. So we looked at their website before we left, and found the perfect little table--for 10 bucks. Can't beat that!

At home that evening we arranged our new headboard to our liking. We'd been looking for something that had shelves/storage space, and this turned out perfectly. We love it!


This week we have kept busy organizing and decorating our house. The last big project came Thursday and Friday, with the advent of our new kitchen sink. 

The original sink was white porcelain, which looked old and outdated, not to mention having several chips in it. The garbage disposal was corroded and leaking, and part of our home inspection had been a recommendation to remove it posthaste. The sprayer was dysfunctional, and the biggest thing was that it was shallow (only 6.5" deep). I convinced James that we needed a new sink.

Thursday night, James and I (mostly James) ripped out the old sink. I was actually pretty impressed with him. Granted, the internet makes home jobs like this a lot easier than they used to be. Without mishap, James removed the garbage disposal, disengaged all the plumbing, and together we removed the sink. Not gonna lie, I found my husband to be pretty legit.



Friday was the big finish--we spent the morning hanging the rest of our decor, setting up the guest bedroom, and later in the afternoon, my father came over to help with the installation of the new sink. 

The new sink is fantastic. We bought the faucet at Costco, and everything else at Home Depot. It is such an improvement over the old sink.

And with that, we were moved in! HUZZAH!!!!!

Now, I suppose, we shall have the part you all were waiting for: the tour of the house! I thought I'd do this in a video, since that will give you a better impression of what our house is actually like. :)


Friday, July 12, 2013

Nationals Recap

Last week James and I went to Chicago for the USA Taekwondo National Championships. The two of us left Monday afternoon and drove straight through--a trip which ended up lasting about 26 hours, due to the awesome traffic in downtown Chicago. Of course, upon arriving we had time for a quick shower before jumping right back into the car to get me to a referee meeting that night at McCormick Place. Needless to say, we were pretty sick of being in the car by the time we finally got to bed that night!

Thursday, July 3rd was the first day of competition. Of our team of 8 (not counting coaches and parents), only Lexi competed that day, in board breaking. I spent the day refereeing, one of my most favorite pursuits. Although I did not get to spend much time in the center, I still learned a lot and met some great people.

On the Fourth of July, I got to be solely an athlete. We had a couple of competitors that day - Cade competed in board breaking and weapons, and Lexi in sparring. We had planned to go out to the Navy Pier that night for fireworks, but never had the chance. The Demonstration Team competition was that night, and despite a 5pm call time, we did not end up competing until about 10:30pm. We watched the tiny bit of fireworks we could see out the window of McCormick Place before setting up for our demo.

Demo Team was, in a word, disappointing. Don't get me wrong, we had a great performance, one of our best. Our energy was great, and though we had a few flubs, we felt great about what we accomplished. But we took last place. Fifth out of five.

We still don't know why. Watching the other teams, it frankly doesn't make sense. We should have placed, at least. We had strong technique, great energy, good team unity. The only thing we can figure is that perhaps we got docked for something. We learned later that we weren't supposed to use a chair in our demonstration--even though I had asked one of the Vice Chairs this question specifically earlier that day, and he said we were fine. It's possible we were deducted for it. We don't know for sure. Maybe the judges just really didn't like our demo. Who knows. It was a huge disappointment for all of us. Still, we feel proud of our performance. We all worked very hard to achieve what we did, and if I do say so myself, we looked great out there.


Friday and Saturday I was back as a referee. I have to say, it was a lot harder this year, with my team there. In the past, I have gone alone, and have been able to focus entirely upon refereeing. But this year, I kept checking my phone, to see who was fighting or how somebody scored. My five-minute breaks were usually spent dashing over to wherever my team was, to spend those few minutes with my husband and the group. The hardest part was when they all went out without me--to the aquarium, to the Navy Pier. Alas. But I enjoyed refereeing, as I always do, and it was still more enjoyable to have my team to go home to in the evenings.

All in all, our little team of 8 took home 3 medals: Brennon, my student, won the bronze medal in a large sparring division of 28 red belts, which made me very proud. Renee, one of our adult students, took home a bronze in board breaking (it was super fun to watch her with her baby bump--Renee is due in October!). And our friend Kristen won the silver medal in her weapons division, which was very exciting.

And after a loooong drive back to Utah (only 24 hours, but it seemed like much longer!), it feels so good to be home.


Monday, July 8, 2013

Saying farewell to our apartment

We close on our house in 10 days. We are immensely excited! However, I wanted to take some pictures of our apartment before we started packing, so we would have some memories to share of the place. It's a bit of a mess right now, seeing as how we got home this morning from Chicago, but it's still home.


Living room
Entryway - you can see the boxes ready to be packed!
Kitchen
Kitchen

Bathroom & laundry
Office (Husband makes a great addition)
Office - my mess of a desk
Bedroom

This was the first Holley House, and will always be remembered with fondness. We have spent the first six months of our marriage here, and what an important time in our life! We have had good times and bad times in this apartment. It has been truly a lovely place to live, perfect for this first period in our marriage.

That said--time to start packing!!

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

The House: Part 2

Before all this started, I knew that there was a lot that went into buying a house. But I don't think I ever really realized how much it really involves.

Today we had our home inspection. It was fun to get back into the house. The weird part about being under contract is that it feels like our house, but we don't get to go in and feel the place, if you know what I mean. So it was nice today to walk through our house, even if it was with the inspectors. To our relief, there were no major issues found in our home. A few minor things--some missing rain gutters and loose siding probably being the worst of it.

The biggest thing has been all the paperwork. It's hard to believe all the things our loan processor asks us for. Bank statements, tax returns, W-2's, pay stubs, home insurance, college transcripts, our marriage certificate and a letter explaining my maiden name, a letter explaining exactly what James has been doing for the past five years (apparently missionary service does not count as work experience), and more. It's a little overwhelming at times!

There's also the matter of acquiring the things we will be in need of, once we move in. We do have most things, but moving from an apartment into a house does necessitate a few purchases. We will be buying a refrigerator, so we've been researching our options. We'll need a lawn mower. (A yard! So excited to have a yard!) On Monday we bought a couch. We found it on KSL, and we're very pleased; it's leather, reddish-brown, and has only a few minor stains, no tears or anything. It's awesome. And my parents are awesome for letting us stuff it in their garage for the next few weeks.

We cannot wait to get into our home. That's what it already feels like: home. Of course, we have much to keep us occupied over the next few weeks (NATIONALS!!!) but still, July 18th cannot come fast enough for us!